Etiquette & booking terms
Everything stated once, plainly, so nothing has to be negotiated later.
01 / First contact
A gentleman introduces himself. He says something about who he is and what he has in mind, and he takes a moment over it. He’s asking a woman on a date, after all, not ordering something.
I’d love to get to know you a little before our meeting, so please state your name, your age and the date you have in mind, with the time, the length and your wishes for it. Late-night enquiries are answered the following morning.
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02 / Screening
It is mandatory, for safety and for age verification, and it is only ever seen by me. I provide an adults-only companion service for gentlemen over 21.
I will need your full name, your age and one of the following: companion references from the last six months, your LinkedIn profile or employment verification (including your own business website), photo ID with the address obscured, or a P411 profile.
Screening happens once, not every time. The first booking is careful, and after that it is simply a message and a date.
If you are booking as a couple, both of you are screened.
03 / The money, handled well
Everything clear before we meet. All dates require a deposit of 30 per cent via a discreet card payment link, or 50 per cent of the full cost for Fly Me To You; the reference on your statement is discreet too. The balance is straightforward on arrival, visible to me in an unsealed envelope.
As a security check, I may ask for proof of payment from your bank account (for example, a screenshot) to confirm you are the cardholder who authorised the transaction.
A number stated plainly is a courtesy, not a crude detail. That is why my rates are published and why I do not negotiate them.
04 / Protection
Never negotiable.
05 / Recording
No photographs, film or audio, by any device, at any point while we are together. That includes phones, cameras, wearables and camera glasses, concealed or otherwise. It applies equally at my place and at yours.
If I find a device recording, the booking ends there, the fee is not returned, and I will require the material deleted in front of me.
I extend you exactly the same discretion, always.
06 / On the day
You are engaging me as a companion. The booking is for my time and companionship only. You acknowledge that I am under no obligation of providing sexual services and I do not allow any free extra time over and above the session time you booked with me. Anything that may happen between you and I during our session is between two consenting adults.
Extra time is agreed between us for a further fee, at my hourly rate.
The more notice the better, and planning ahead means you are less likely to be disappointed. Three hours is the least I can manage, and only if I am free. Evening dates usually finish by midnight, unless we’ve agreed otherwise or are spending the night together.
On our first date, please bring the photo ID you screened with and the card you paid your deposit with, unless we’ve arranged otherwise. It’s simply so I know the gentleman I meet is the one I’ve been talking to. If either is missing, the date won’t go ahead.
Should I feel that my safety is compromised, the date ends there and then, without a refund.
07 / Longer dates
Dates of six hours or more should include some free time and time to eat. Overnight bookings include a minimum of seven hours of uninterrupted sleep. Dates of twenty-four hours or more include at least an hour of private time.
On a longer date you are the host and I am your guest, and I rather like it that way. Food, drinks and anything else we need along the way are yours to arrange, whether that is dinner somewhere lovely or room service without either of us getting dressed. My travel and food expenses sit outside the booking fee. It is a date, after all.
08 / Cancellations and changes
Plans change. Tell me early and it is rarely a problem. Deposits are non-refundable, but with more than 18 hours’ notice you may put yours towards your next date. If I cancel, I will refund your deposit or reschedule.
Travel deposits are non-refundable once flights and hotel are booked, and the 18-hour arrangement above does not apply to travel bookings.
Where we meet
Incall bookings are available from 90 minutes, from a premium hotel suite in Kensington by prior appointment. Rate on enquiry. My rates already include the cost of the hotel.
Outcalls begin at two hours, across London, Heathrow and Gatwick. Longer bookings are available across the rest of the UK, and Fly Me To You across Europe.
Enquiries I decline
I don’t do video calls. My photographs and films answer that question.
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